I AM HAVING THE SAME PROBLEMS WITH MY 3 1/2 YEAR OLD MALE. HE IS CRATE TRAINED AND SLEEPS IN THE BED WITH US, BUT AS SOON AS WE TURN OUR BACKS HE IS GOING ALL OVER THE HOUSE, THE BED ESPECIALLY! HE GETS TO GO OUTSIDE AS MUCH AS HE WANTS WHENEVER HE WANTS, WE PLAY THE IN AND OUT GAME CONSTANTLY...