Cherokee
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My sister in law has a personal catering business out of her home. She mostly does stuff for friends and family for extra money.
So when i was put in charge of the teacher appreciation luncheon I immediately thought of her. She agreed to it. The budget was $500. So I told her she could decide on the menu and whatever was left over would be her pay. After all was done she had $200. I have to add that the only reason se had this much left over was because I helped her shop. We used coupons and I used my sam's club card and showed her a good place to get produce. I even helped her make the things so that she wouldn't have too much on her hands. it was for 40 people. It went great. So when they had to do something else they asked if she would be willing. the next thing was not as big but she made $40. Now others have asked and she's getting a lot of business. I even got her a name for her business as well as a slogan to go along with it. my husband also made her business cards. all of this was at no cost to her. all she had to do was get the business card paper.
the other day i ordered 2 cheesecakes from her. I wanted them as a special gift to the staff at Jason's chool and also to get her more business. keep in mind I am getting nothing for any of this. I didn't get anything of what she got paid or anything for my ideas or help. When I say anything I mean not even a thank you.
So anyway I ordered the cheesecakes and I asked her how much are they going to be? She says well I normally charge $15 and that was all that was said. Which meant not even a discount. I bought them anyway.
Should I be upset or am I making more out of this than I should?
Keep in mind that she's always stabbed me in the back and i have put each event behind with out so much as an apology from her.
Anyway even if I'm wrong I needed to vent because it upset me. I don't want any money from her just maybe a thank you or even recognition for what i did. Maybe I'm asking for too much. I should just leave it.
So when i was put in charge of the teacher appreciation luncheon I immediately thought of her. She agreed to it. The budget was $500. So I told her she could decide on the menu and whatever was left over would be her pay. After all was done she had $200. I have to add that the only reason se had this much left over was because I helped her shop. We used coupons and I used my sam's club card and showed her a good place to get produce. I even helped her make the things so that she wouldn't have too much on her hands. it was for 40 people. It went great. So when they had to do something else they asked if she would be willing. the next thing was not as big but she made $40. Now others have asked and she's getting a lot of business. I even got her a name for her business as well as a slogan to go along with it. my husband also made her business cards. all of this was at no cost to her. all she had to do was get the business card paper.
the other day i ordered 2 cheesecakes from her. I wanted them as a special gift to the staff at Jason's chool and also to get her more business. keep in mind I am getting nothing for any of this. I didn't get anything of what she got paid or anything for my ideas or help. When I say anything I mean not even a thank you.
So anyway I ordered the cheesecakes and I asked her how much are they going to be? She says well I normally charge $15 and that was all that was said. Which meant not even a discount. I bought them anyway.
Should I be upset or am I making more out of this than I should?
Keep in mind that she's always stabbed me in the back and i have put each event behind with out so much as an apology from her.
Anyway even if I'm wrong I needed to vent because it upset me. I don't want any money from her just maybe a thank you or even recognition for what i did. Maybe I'm asking for too much. I should just leave it.