Hi everyone:
Just an update for you. Based on everyone's advice, I contacted the breeder, and she checked out really well. Kaylee has been fully health tested, and shown as well. She is not a champion yet, she has 4 points so far whatever that means. The breeder wants to show her again at the end of Feb. I guess the home she was in before was showing her, but when their marriage fell apart, they understandably quit the show circuit.
I also spoke to two other breeders in Alberta, who confirmed that this breeder is in good standing with the Alberta Kennel Club, and The Alberta Boxer Club, and that she has a good reputation.
The breeder also told me that she only ever breeds her bitches twice, and the puppies are raised and socialized in her home, and only go out to homes she carefully choses.
She said she would be covering all the expences pre and post partem. It's all going to be in a contract before we take Kaylee home. She encouraged me to call her anytime I had questions, and said she would take Kaylee back if something didn't work out.
So I think I trust her now. One of the other breeders I spoke with said that what this breeder is offering me, (we can take the dog if we let her breed her one more time,) is a fair arrangement as long as all the details of the breeding part are clear.
So I am now much more excited about meeting this girl! I am very glad I posted messages on this forum, and the breeder forum as well, because the generous feedback from everyone gave me the right questions to ask before we went on with this adoption. It has been a real education in ethical breeding and buying of boxers for me; I wish everyone knew all this before they bought a boxer. I certainly didn't when I bought my first two.
Thanks again everyone, and I'll keep you posted as to what happens when we meet Kaylee!