Oh believe me... I know EXACTLY what you mean. Do some research into harnesses - there is lots of advice on this board and I have certainly started some threads on that topic myself! Obedience will be key I think. I'm getting her into another obedience class in the next few weeks - as soon as she's fixed! But I wouldn't have any success without a harness - she is just too strong and still too much of a pup. I'm hoping she'll calm down before she turns 5 LOL